I could cry, in fact, I did haha
The problem is obvious to me now. I need to reverse the rotation of light for night time so it doesnt get as high during the day. The poor plant was dry as a bone. I pulled it from the bucket and it had roots on the outside of the dirt. as soon i turned the plant over, 80% of the dirt fell off and i had hardly and root system left.
I put fresh soil in the bucket and WET the hell out of the dirt and I also added more water pitchers to help with humidity the next couple days.
I hope I can bring it back. I KNOW its dried out because before I left it had white hairs...now the leaves are slick and dark. poor thing was starving.