im not gonna sugarcoat this: "IF" u smoked before u met her, and she knew goin in that u smoked, its time to cut ur losses and run like hell while u still can. this is the begining of ur lives together, these are supposed to be ur best years and already an ultimatum has been declared. unless u are happy to live in a controlled relationship, it will never work. my break-up cost me over $350,000 a house and 2 cars and countless hours with my kids, but willie nelson said it best: "u know why divorces cost so much ... cause their worth it" ...
