if you suck with force, like pulling from a joint, you will pop the socket.
the only way around this is to...
a. have someone give you shotguns, while you inhale, no sucking.
b. fill a Volcano bag with vapor and squeeze the bag so the vapor goes into your mouth, inhale, no sucking.
c. have someone fill you a bong rip, then have them blow through the hole where the hitter goes, while you inhale from the top, no sucking.
had all 4 pulled at once and popped 2 sockets from smoking, learned the hard way, glad i can share with you to save you that process...