man it sure looks like a male to me. it was my first thought when i saw the pics you should have posted earlier and more frequent,
the last pic you can see the sacks at the bottom of the pic male (defo) back to the drawing board dont loose heart though, it was good practice run for the real deal next time you will be more in tune to what a male looks like so you can eliminate them as soon as noticed,
keep it up you will get there soon
