Thanks, I will check out the Netherlands.
Can't boot the kid. I tried and the law is where it ends everytime. Sounds dumb I know, but tell me just how do you boot your kid out? Legally. Long story but when he lived with me at age 11 the CPS took him to his moms because he had a bruise and said I did it. I did not fight it, it was from his dirt bike he had ran into a tree. I figured if he wanted to be there and the CPS wanted to believe whatever without asking me they could have him. But by the summer he came to visit and moved back in with me and stayed until he went to the Marines, they did not want him either, drug charges, and they put him out, he totaled his truck, lost a close friend and a girl friend so I felt sorry and said he could move back in until he could get back on his feet that was 2 years ago in February this year.
The wife threw him out on the streets when he was 14, he had gone back to live with her and it lasted a couple of months. Now he is 24. Neither he nor his sister ever wanted to live with there mother that is how f'd up she is her own child stayed with me until she went to college dropped out and got married. Now I am the bad guy and she never speaks to me since she got married. Oh well. Not a problem for me. I would not give her and her husband money when they asked for 5k one christmas and then I find out that she had made an X rated movie, I suspect it was to pay off some jerk that was trying to extort money from them for her f'n up. Guess she was like her mom more than I new it, she won't speak to her mother either. She was raised by me mostly and she graduated and attended christian schools all but a couple of years in middle school. Makes me wonder about christian school, it no longer exists. But one of her music teachers and she sure seemed a bit too close. But now I am the one that all the blame has been placed on for. What a drama... and all that other sh...tuff too.
Thanks for the Tip on the Netherlands.
