Hey there:
I hear you with kids and ex wives. I dont have any kids but sure gave my parents greif. Anyway.....you want a relaxed place thats weed freindly. Come where I live. Beautiful Vancouver Washington. Just across the river from Portland Oregon. 1.5 hours from the pacific ocean and 1/5 hour from the gifford Pincho national forest. Its beautiful place to live. You could get a nice place outside the busy part of town. With all your problems you can easily go to the doctor and get a medicle marijuana license. Its like 200 for the card and you have to pay the doctor for the license. After you get it all handled you can grow yourself or license a freind to grow it for you. They even have classes here in Portland on growing. They will help you get the right clones and setup your grow room right. If you get caught smoking in public its still illegal but possession is fine...WITH YOUR CARD...they just look at the card and hand you back your meds.
Let me know if your inrested. I can help you get to the right doctors and point you in the right direction. Want to know about the lifestyle and climate of Vancouver...use the google.
Good luck and hope you find your place.
Jay
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