She's definetly looking suspect.. those pre flowers look male but I'm definetly not a expert. The pics are a little blurry but that looks like a male pollen sack under the leaf in the pic. Definetly keep your eye on her/him..
Hate to say it,( because it happened to me ) but that is a male anyway you look at it. I tried everything to make it a female but it just would'nt go, lol. I feel for you, and you could let it go for awhile longer, but I'm afraid the outcome is going to be what it is. Good luck. ( Hope I'm wrong )