You know what it's like a fuck it scenario. MIL actually bought me cannabis leaf socks for Mother's Day. Cops in the family aren't going to say anything...just like I already had a stigma with them knowing that I smoked...now growing is another level of possible shun. Seemingly, no issues have arisen yet....if they do like you said, it's gonna be a long talk about their drinking habits and then I'm going to go loco. Not deflecting, more like trying to shine a light...anywho...happy to be back and sorry you have dealt with some of the similar varietal of shittiness. Much love BakedWe all missed you '82! Read about the troubles. All that absolutely blows. I'm just glad your son is doing better. Having the family know about something that you'd rather not know, is something I am very familiar with. I had a surprise visit (I f*ing hate those) from my SIL & BIL and it was right as my outdoor garden was ramping up. They aren't open to that discussion. The girls were out in full display! Looking beautiful too! Needless to say that they have never been back and rarely talk to me anyway. I was super concerned about them knowing. Now that I'm sure the whole family knows, I just don't care anymore. If they want to have a real world convo about it, I'm ready. If they want to be shitty and shun me, then at least I know where they stand. Blessings and good vibes!