On one of my babies, there are obvious hairs comeing out at one of the internodes, and also what looks like to be a open something that doesnt look pear shaped but looks like its got hairs comeing out of it.. Is a male flower and the "ball on a stick" the same thing?... and also, on one of my other babies, you have the main stem,then the sun leaf, then the pair shaped thingy, and then two pods.. Are these the buds? Do the buds form right next to the hairs? they are 2 weeks into flowering.. ive never had a successful grow, so i dont know what to look for.. where do the buds form? thanks!