slntchttrbx
New Member
ok getting high makes my mind wander, and the gears churn.
i have a question about the word love.
it is a feeling, an emotion correct?
and feelings and emotions have no boundaries.
so why does this one? it is the only one. it has a definition, a guidline, and boundaries. as well as expectations.
simple rules.
is there a rule on how many tears one can cry, or a rule on how big a smile should b?
i do not know " love " as society demands it.
a big example. i am " dating" this guy, and this girl. both know of eachother, both quite ok actually. we all hook up often. i tell him i love him, because i feel i do. he says i cannot. he is single with a few girls on the side. im perfectly ok with this. he spends more of his time with me, and my son. he helps me when i need help. he is there when i need him. he rubs my neck when i want to peel away the skin and call it quits. he treats me Physically well, and emotionally.
he states he cannot tell me he loves me back, because i do not know the meaning of love
he says that if i do "love" him i would not be ok with the fact he has other women. i do not understand this. why does a feeling/word HAVE to be associated with commitment and rules?
am i just that friggn high???
i have a question about the word love.
it is a feeling, an emotion correct?
and feelings and emotions have no boundaries.
so why does this one? it is the only one. it has a definition, a guidline, and boundaries. as well as expectations.
simple rules.
is there a rule on how many tears one can cry, or a rule on how big a smile should b?
i do not know " love " as society demands it.
a big example. i am " dating" this guy, and this girl. both know of eachother, both quite ok actually. we all hook up often. i tell him i love him, because i feel i do. he says i cannot. he is single with a few girls on the side. im perfectly ok with this. he spends more of his time with me, and my son. he helps me when i need help. he is there when i need him. he rubs my neck when i want to peel away the skin and call it quits. he treats me Physically well, and emotionally.
he states he cannot tell me he loves me back, because i do not know the meaning of love
he says that if i do "love" him i would not be ok with the fact he has other women. i do not understand this. why does a feeling/word HAVE to be associated with commitment and rules?
am i just that friggn high???