Sweet chick8
New Member
this is juyst an update on how my pregnancy is going, since my last topic got closed.
I understand what the consequences of having a child are, but i also agree with TokinPunk no one is ever ready, thats what i keep getting told. And with chico i think said it if u want to have sex you have to deal with the consequences. As for the serious issues i understand this is a life long commitment and that i am going to have to make a lot of sacrafices. My bf and i are willing to put this child first and do everything possible for it to grow up in a loving, nurturing environment. We have plenty of family support from both sides, plus extended family. It not impossible to do this, as it has been done before, although it is a lot of work and i now have to take the hard way to reach my dreams. Finacially- Money is not really an issue i will be able to afford the neccessities, but i mean i doubt my child will care if he/she doesnt have the most expensive toys and clothes. I know people who have planned to have kids and make less than my bf. Eduactionally- i have gone further than both my parents and my bf parents went in school and they raised kids all right. i plan to finnish my last year of school while i am pregnant and im the top of all my classes so i still should do alright and get high enough marks to get into uni when im ready to go. As for life experience i admit i am lacking in that department, however this in itself is an experience which i can learn from and hopefully benefit my kids. I can say i've been there done that. Yes i would have rathered to plan my kids after i been to uni and have money in the bank, but thats not how it happened im pregnant now.
My bf and i had disscussed what we would do if i got pregnant, we would keep it, but it different when it happens. Although after much consideration, questioning and talking to people we feel this is this the best decision.
As for drugs and stuff. pot and cigarettes were all i was ever on and the occasional drink, but thats all gone now. I haven't had any pot or cigs for over a week now. My bf still smokes cigs but has also given up pot as we decided we don't want our child growing up in that environment. His parents smoked and his childhood was full of fighting becuase of it and they never had much money cause it all went to the drugs. We gave our glass bong away,threw out our bowl, pulled out our plants and what we used to put away for pot is being put in the bank for our baby.
I went to a family reunion on the weekend and my cousin gave me our first piece of baby clothing.
Thanx to all who are supporting. Sry i dont mean to start this debate again.
I understand what the consequences of having a child are, but i also agree with TokinPunk no one is ever ready, thats what i keep getting told. And with chico i think said it if u want to have sex you have to deal with the consequences. As for the serious issues i understand this is a life long commitment and that i am going to have to make a lot of sacrafices. My bf and i are willing to put this child first and do everything possible for it to grow up in a loving, nurturing environment. We have plenty of family support from both sides, plus extended family. It not impossible to do this, as it has been done before, although it is a lot of work and i now have to take the hard way to reach my dreams. Finacially- Money is not really an issue i will be able to afford the neccessities, but i mean i doubt my child will care if he/she doesnt have the most expensive toys and clothes. I know people who have planned to have kids and make less than my bf. Eduactionally- i have gone further than both my parents and my bf parents went in school and they raised kids all right. i plan to finnish my last year of school while i am pregnant and im the top of all my classes so i still should do alright and get high enough marks to get into uni when im ready to go. As for life experience i admit i am lacking in that department, however this in itself is an experience which i can learn from and hopefully benefit my kids. I can say i've been there done that. Yes i would have rathered to plan my kids after i been to uni and have money in the bank, but thats not how it happened im pregnant now.
My bf and i had disscussed what we would do if i got pregnant, we would keep it, but it different when it happens. Although after much consideration, questioning and talking to people we feel this is this the best decision.
As for drugs and stuff. pot and cigarettes were all i was ever on and the occasional drink, but thats all gone now. I haven't had any pot or cigs for over a week now. My bf still smokes cigs but has also given up pot as we decided we don't want our child growing up in that environment. His parents smoked and his childhood was full of fighting becuase of it and they never had much money cause it all went to the drugs. We gave our glass bong away,threw out our bowl, pulled out our plants and what we used to put away for pot is being put in the bank for our baby.
I went to a family reunion on the weekend and my cousin gave me our first piece of baby clothing.
Thanx to all who are supporting. Sry i dont mean to start this debate again.
