Going back and forth from the Sun to artificial light over in your plant plus it will stress it out he needs to get good lighting before you start to clean it and you know if it's male or female yet
You need to get it about a hundred watts of actual light and once you get it and light turn it to 12 and 12 12 hours of light 12 hours of Darkness it will go into thinking it's full and it will come out with its sex a female will have pistol hairs little white hairs that stick off and a male will have little balls that form