No offence taken and thanks for looking out for me @Momma’s Kitchen . I'm not saying I'm right or wrong and I do know Em's personality. It is up to the grower as you mentioned to determine what they think is best for them and right now they are listening to Em so there's no sense in debating the problem as it would lead to more confusion for the OP.
Now I'm off to smoke my after work blunt
Now I'm off to smoke my after work blunt