Great news guys, it is a femme. I woke up this morning (ok afternoon) and the top of the plant had 4 hairs.
I did start to flower it very small because I didn't want a big plant. After about 25 days of veg and 10 days of flower it has started to show. the plant is maybe 10-12 inches high. I'm hoping for a couple of budz and don't need a OZ.
The plant is KUSH and when I stick my nose in it I can smell the stinky already