I have one 16 year old boy, who smokes and knows I do. He's a good boy. Good student, swims for his school and has a heart of gold. When one of us is dry, we smoke out the other. There are those who would call me a bad parent and I say fuck you to them. We talk about EVERYTHING. He puts me on the phone to talk w/his friends who need an adult ear, maybe just to talk, sometimes with serious problems. He knows he can trust me and I him.