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Sweet chick8

Sweet chick8

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Well i just been to the doctor and found out im 5 weeks pregnant. Well that wasnt in my 10 year plan i was supposed finnish school and become a doctor. I told my dad and he went of his head at me saying how stupid i was. I was on birth control pills so i dont know what happened at least my bf, the baby's father, says he will stick by me. Oh well this means no more weed or cigarettes.

Well you know just wanted to tell someone, cause there i no one here to tell. I would love to hear advice/stories from ppl who have kids especially those who had them young.
 
I personally, don't have any kids. But... Congradulations! Your smart for kicking your cigs and weed, stay healthy!
 
Congrats...It would suck ass for me....but Congrats to you.
 
Hell yeah, the world needs more Aussies.
Congrats. You should probably keep around a shit-covered diaper, just so you can get used to the smell. You'll find them at your local daycare or retirement home.
 
Congrads dudette
Except, even tho many people are against this and all, there is still time for you to get an abortion... You are young and all and you gotta think long term, do you really want this child, will it grow up in the proper/decent environnement? Will the father stick around? Best of luck.

TokinPunkGirl is also pregnant, 6 months i think, she's also a mother of a 2 year old son I beleive. I guess you can contact here, she's the best on here to talk to on that matter I suppose!
 
DaHui said:
Congrads dudette
Except, even tho many people are against this and all, there is still time for you to get an abortion... You are young and all and you gotta think long term, do you really want this child, will it grow up in the proper/decent environnement? Will the father stick around? Best of luck.

TokinPunkGirl is also pregnant, 6 months i think, she's also a mother of a 2 year old son I beleive. I guess you can contact here, she's the best on here to talk to on that matter I suppose!
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Along with abortion you can also put it up for adoption.
 
My ex-roommates ended up with a baby on the way.... they're my ex roommates because they moved to his parents after they found out. 'Course, they ended up pregnant because they humped liked rabbits and used no kind of birth control.... except keeping a big bag of condoms beside the bed :icon_roll .

She's got less than a month left until the baby's due. They have the most unstable relationship. I believe that they were hoping a baby would keep them together, but I really think that it'll do the opposite. I mean, in 9 months all they've done is bought 24 diapers and a new car. *shakes head*

Like's been said before, you really do have to think about if you are ready to have a baby, both physically and mentally. With a kid, med school becomes almost impossible. It requires a lot of your time and devotion, not only for classes but also homework and studying. It kinda comes down to which would you rather do... be a mother, or a doctor :biggrin:

Don't listen to your dad though, you're not stupid. Remember, abstinence is the only real safe sex... these things do happen. And I'm sure whatever you do, he'll still be there for you no matter what. I know we at the site all will be too!!!!!
 
I've known three people who have had kids/pregnancy young:

-A girl who takes good care of her child. I think she now has a second.

-A guy, which the baby mama never wants to see the kid again, who is working his ass off to support himself and his kid. Really good guy.

-Finally, a girl who got pregnant (and who almost married my best friend): miscarriage because the stupid bitch was chain-smoking cigarettes while she was pregnant.

So, it's not like it's the end of your life. Follow your heart and do what you feel is best. We'll be here at 420Times to support you. Good job on quitting the cigs/weed.
 
Well I've been spending the last week thinking hard and I've decided to keep the baby. Im 6 weeks so he/she will probly already have a heartbeat and in my mind its murder to have an abortion, although in some circumstances i would. Also because i plan to marry my bf and have his children eventually and if i had an abortion and a kid in 5 years or so then i feel i would always be thinking about the one i killed. As for adoption i'm thinking the same as TokinPunkGurl i dont think i could handle 40wks of pregnancy then just give away my baby.

My Dad has got used to it and said he will always be there to support me. I have been with the babys father for 4 1/2 years so i know he will stick by me. He wanted to keep the baby from the start but said it was up to me since i was the one with all the plans. My baby is due in september and i have my final exams (HSC) is in october so it going to be hard but i want to finnish school and im going to work my ass off to achieve good result and hopefully get a scholarship to uni obviously not doing medicine but something shorter a 3 maybe 4 year course. I feel that it is important to go to uni not just for myself but i will be able to provide a better life for my baby. My plan is take a year or two off before uni then my bf will look after the baby, well toddler by then, while i go to uni. When my Mum died we got some money and dad has been investing it. It was meant to be used to buy a house but dad says i can have it to pay for rent and stuff while im at uni.

Well that the plan but life doesnt always go to plan. but i trust everything will work out even if its not the way i plan. i know i will always love my baby and work hard to provide not only a good, loving, supporting environment for him/her. I know i dont need to be rich or anything but i will work hard cause i want my child to be able to have the nesecities such as new clothes when they are needed, play sport and have choices in the future. Well i dont really care if anyone thinks this is a bad idea cause u really dont know me or my situation. but thank you to those ppl offering their support

TokinPunkGurl got a cure or anything to ease morning sickness?
 
TokinPunkGurl said:
wake'n'bake! j/k
~thieving Jesus NOT tpg
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hell yes! :adore: :laughtwo:
 
Sweet chick, it sounds to me like you've got a good hold on this whole situation. Even though it may be hard, you are in a good place (long term bf who is committed, supportive family, intelligence, etc) Best of luck to you through this all...
 
Sweet chick8.... what medicine courses were you planning on taking??

I had to re-think my medical school plans when something unexpected popped up and have been researching like crazy every single medical alternative to the one I wanted.

I'm just curious, cuz I'm a big medical nerd and no one else I know is. It's good to know I'm not the only medically inclined pothead!
 
Well i wanted to be a forensic pathologist and perform autopsies. Which would mean doing a 6 year course in surgery then 4-6 years specialising in forensics including a shorter uni course and working with an already qualified forensic pathologist as his assistant.

but now im thinking of doing just a basic foresic course which is only 3-4 years it also means that there is alot more uni's i could attend. i'd end up working in a lab doing like dna testing or something of the sorts u see on csi type of shows.

i also think a psychologist would be cool, but ill look into it
 
Well I can just put u a reverse example...

My sister had this friend (now they hardly talk, the friend in question kinda lost all hr friends overtime). The friend was 17 she had a 28 yeard old bf who used to be maried, has alrdy a kid, and used to hit his wife (and used t sell cocaine)... Right when she turned 18 she left her home, went to live with her bf, got pregnant (and continued smoking cigs while pregnant), has a kid now. She kept saying she was gonna continue studying and all, but she's dropped out of school and mostly spends her time at home or ar her bf's bar.
My sis is on talking terms with her now but they hardly speak to each other anyway (they were always having discussion because of her bf).

I'm not trying to really make a point with this just give u a bad example. The fact that u r worrying, that u r asking about it wondering what to do tells alrdy a lot for u. But think very well about what u r gonna do, because there's no going back.
 
Mad Cow Steakho said:
Hell yeah, the world needs more Aussies.
Congrats. You should probably keep around a shit-covered diaper, just so you can get used to the smell. You'll find them at your local daycare or retirement home.
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HA HA HA HA, sorry, i couldn't fucking help it, lol.
 
but sweet chick, your kid is gonna be okay, cuz his mom has her shit together and has already begun providing a great life for him/her, sorry to hear about your mom/mum, but look on the bright side, your heart will melt when the baby looks at you and calls you mom, or mama, or mum, or mummy, whatever, you know what i'm sayin, lol, i hate kids cuz i'm horrified that mine will turn out like me, or even worse, my dad, cuz you know they say it skips a generation, but i can't fucking wait til me and my girl have our children, we already have the first boy and first girl's named picked out, corny huh, for the boy it will be Mateo Angel Vazquez, and for the girl Savannah Elizabeth Vazquez, it took damn near a year and a half to come up with those two, lol.
 
TokinPunkGurl said:
Picking out names, is kinda hard. Took over 6 months for my hubby and to agree with our son. This time around, i just kinda said, what we're naming our daughter..he knew i'd win anyways, so he basically didnt bother to disagree too much. LOL.
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That's kinda like me... I don't have kids yet but I already have my first born daughters name picked out. Alexavia Nicole. Doesn't matter what the father has to say.. :p lol
 

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