It has become more and more a growing concept in my own mind. I have been smoking regularly i.e daily for 10 years, started 16 years ago. In the last few years I have been quite open about it, not saying I announce it, just if it comes up, or somethin was related too, I generally don't lie about it. Work, and police are entirely different situations IMO. I have been the blacksheep in my family for quite a long time due to my "habits" and "lifestyle" and I always defended myself, but never pushed it on them. Over the years most of the family that truely matter and care came around, and don't judge so harshly anymore regaurding MJ, don't get me wrong, there still brain-washed Republicans, but I'm starting to think thats actaully brain damage. . .lol, but I digress. . . My GF of 4 years was a heavy toker like myself till she was pregnant with my daughter. She didn't smoke at all, and after she was born she continued to stay MJ free. (Not because of her views on MJ, just Mental Health issues she's tackling another way) Anyway, my daughter is now 1 1/12 years old. . . and I kinda wanted to get a feel for what other may think about smoking MJ during their childrens lives. How did you deal with it in the begining, thru pre and elementary school, and then thru 18? Its strange that I fumble around these questions in my own head. . . I've known many peeps who knew their parents smoked, or even toked with thiers. . . But many of my friends who smoked have moved away and such, so I don't have this experience to relate to anyone, or just to compare notes, ya know what I mean? Plus a lot of my friends parents who shared this info, had a lot of other things going on that MJ wouldn't even make the radar. . .i.e. other drugs. So I can't use them for analysis. . or whatever. . a little stoned and the ideas a starting to blend together. . .lol What do you guys think, what kinds of experiences have you parents had?