What brought me here

FishEyedFool

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I guess since I haven’t formally introduced myself, I will now. Hi all!

I’m 49 years old and I’m from Alabama. I’ve been married for 26 years and we have a son that will be going into his junior year at the University of Alabama, this September (and here’s the obligatory, “Roll Tide!"). In 2010, my wife and I had our second son. Rather quickly we knew that our second son wasn’t a normal child, and when he was 2-1/2 years old, he was officially diagnosed as non-verbal autistic. He was low functioning autistic but one attribute the good Lord gave him was the ability to love. Unfortunately, he suddenly left this earth a couple of years ago and I still can’t get over it. That boy loved big bear hugs and beards. When I got home from work, he’d take off running from the end of the hallway and then leap into my arms and rub his face all over my stubble. I grew a beard for him to enjoy and still wear one to this day, in his honor. To not have ever uttered a word, he sure did teach me a lot about unconditional love, not fearing the unknown and probably most importantly – Perspective. Observing him for the short time that he was on this earth, I noticed that he paid attention to the little things and took great joy in them. He would pick up a pine needle from the yard and would stare at it for 10 – 15 minutes while he rolled it through his fingers. You could see the contentment on his face. In a roundabout way, I ended up on this site because of him.

I’m a long time smoker (I started in high school and took six years off to serve in the military [Army Reserves], and then picked back up where I left off). Growing is something that I have wanted to try for a long time but I was just too fearful of getting caught. Well, eff that. We will be on the right side of history, here – not them. The people that were responsible for the fear campaign that was waged against this medicinal plant, and the people that continue to cover for those deceitful people, are irrelevant to me. We’re not just a bunch of rebellious teenagers, anymore. We are smart, professional people that can recognize orchestrated misinformation and frankly, we’re over it. And we’re moving on with our lives – with or without them.

All of us wound up here, on this site, for different reasons. Whether it was to learn about marijuana use, or growing or just to post some pictures of mouthwatering, frosty buds – and brag on them a little. All legitimate reasons to be here. I’m not sure, however, that many of us expected that we would find the community that we have found here. I think that this site is a living example of the cannabis culture and the goodness that it entails. So, a ‘tip of the cap’ to the creators and administrators of this informative and entertaining website. Good job, guys and gals!

It is time to enjoy the little things in life and to not be fearful of the unknown… Thank you for your time and happy growing.
 
Roll Tide, @FishEyedFool ! So glad you're a fan of the right school. :)

Thank you for the official introduction.

Isn't it amazing how these little guys can love despite the misperceptions about them?! Words can't say how sorry I am for your loss. I'm glad the two of you were able to share such a wonderful bond in your son's short time on this earth.

Just be careful there with the Alaban in charge. Stealth is essential.

As you already know, there are some great folks here. Hope to see a grow journal from you soon.
 
My son has severe ADHD and mild spectrum FASD. (I often feel like throttling his biological mother for that) and while he isn't nonverbal, he has many days where he wont use his words. Overall, I'd say he wont talk about a third of the time. Anyway, I just wanted to say what a nice snap shot you made of your son by sharing those memories. My son is very similar to yours in his capacity for love and his attention to detail. His frequent tight hugs are the best. He loves bear hugs as well! Whenever I start getting frustrated with him on the hard days, I'm gonna try and remember your post. Thanks for sharing that.
 
Roll Tide, @FishEyedFool ! So glad you're a fan of the right school. :)

Thank you for the official introduction.

Isn't it amazing how these little guys can love despite the misperceptions about them?! Words can't say how sorry I am for your loss. I'm glad the two of you were able to share such a wonderful bond in your son's short time on this earth.

Just be careful there with the Alaban in charge. Stealth is essential.

As you already know, there are some great folks here. Hope to see a grow journal from you soon.
Thanks for the kind words, Al.

In the nicest way possible, I told my son that if he wanted to attend the West Georgia school, that was fine, but none of my money was going to that school. I think he was picking up what I was laying down but I don't think it was ever in question where he would attend.

Yes, stealth is essential. I love living here but many folks around here won't agree with my new outlook. I've taken measures to ensure that I'll create as little a footprint as possible.

Hold on a second... BREAKING NEWS...
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My first seedling... The green thumb, however, I do not have. I can't even get the effin' seed in the middle of the cup! I don't know how that even happened. But thank you, AL. Hopefully, a grow journal will follow shortly.
 
Awesome!
 
Thanks Fisheyed, I've met people like your son and have seen the free love on their faces and in their bodies. You're a blessed family to know this love. I pray for your freedom to feel good that you have been the ones to Shepard him through this maze of what we see as life.
Welcome to the world your new seedling!
 
Thanks Fisheyed, I've met people like your son and have seen the free love on their faces and in their bodies. You're a blessed family to know this love. I pray for your freedom to feel good that you have been the ones to Shepard him through this maze of what we see as life.
Welcome to the world your new seedling!
Thank you @stoneotter.
 
My son has severe ADHD and mild spectrum FASD. (I often feel like throttling his biological mother for that) and while he isn't nonverbal, he has many days where he wont use his words. Overall, I'd say he wont talk about a third of the time. Anyway, I just wanted to say what a nice snap shot you made of your son by sharing those memories. My son is very similar to yours in his capacity for love and his attention to detail. His frequent tight hugs are the best. He loves bear hugs as well! Whenever I start getting frustrated with him on the hard days, I'm gonna try and remember your post. Thanks for sharing that.
Thank you @Scottsquatch. During the 7+ years that we had him, I don't remember one easy day. There were days worse than others, but no easy ones. I feel your struggle. Keep loving that boy and don't forget to pay attention to your mental health every now and then. It can be overwhelming sometimes, especially if we don't carve out a little time for ourselves.
 
Thank you @Scottsquatch. During the 7+ years that we had him, I don't remember one easy day. There were days worse than others, but no easy ones. I feel your struggle. Keep loving that boy and don't forget to pay attention to your mental health every now and then. It can be overwhelming sometimes, especially if we don't carve out a little time for ourselves.

Truth.
 
Yep, that's one of the reasons why I NEED my nightly bowl or two. The bright side is that the older he gets, the more he seems like he is adjusting to expectations. Some days it's almost like there isnt an issue... Other days I wanna beat my head against the concrete!
Amen. A bowl or two will take the edge off, won't it.
 
A very warm welcome to 420. Thank you so much for sharing a part of you with all of us. My wife is a soon to be BCBA and I will definitely share your intro with her....I'm always telling her how awesome everyone here is...this is further proof.

I look forward to your posts and pictures...Happy growing.
 
A very warm welcome to 420. Thank you so much for sharing a part of you with all of us. My wife is a soon to be BCBA and I will definitely share your intro with her....I'm always telling her how awesome everyone here is...this is further proof.

I look forward to your posts and pictures...Happy growing.
Bless that woman's heart. She's doing the Lord's work, that's for sure. Some of my son's favorite people were his BA's. Thank her for me. And thank you for the kind words.
 
I guess since I haven’t formally introduced myself, I will now. Hi all!

I’m 49 years old and I’m from Alabama. I’ve been married for 26 years and we have a son that will be going into his junior year at the University of Alabama, this September (and here’s the obligatory, “Roll Tide!"). In 2010, my wife and I had our second son. Rather quickly we knew that our second son wasn’t a normal child, and when he was 2-1/2 years old, he was officially diagnosed as non-verbal autistic. He was low functioning autistic but one attribute the good Lord gave him was the ability to love. Unfortunately, he suddenly left this earth a couple of years ago and I still can’t get over it. That boy loved big bear hugs and beards. When I got home from work, he’d take off running from the end of the hallway and then leap into my arms and rub his face all over my stubble. I grew a beard for him to enjoy and still wear one to this day, in his honor. To not have ever uttered a word, he sure did teach me a lot about unconditional love, not fearing the unknown and probably most importantly – Perspective. Observing him for the short time that he was on this earth, I noticed that he paid attention to the little things and took great joy in them. He would pick up a pine needle from the yard and would stare at it for 10 – 15 minutes while he rolled it through his fingers. You could see the contentment on his face. In a roundabout way, I ended up on this site because of him.

I’m a long time smoker (I started in high school and took six years off to serve in the military [Army Reserves], and then picked back up where I left off). Growing is something that I have wanted to try for a long time but I was just too fearful of getting caught. Well, eff that. We will be on the right side of history, here – not them. The people that were responsible for the fear campaign that was waged against this medicinal plant, and the people that continue to cover for those deceitful people, are irrelevant to me. We’re not just a bunch of rebellious teenagers, anymore. We are smart, professional people that can recognize orchestrated misinformation and frankly, we’re over it. And we’re moving on with our lives – with or without them.

All of us wound up here, on this site, for different reasons. Whether it was to learn about marijuana use, or growing or just to post some pictures of mouthwatering, frosty buds – and brag on them a little. All legitimate reasons to be here. I’m not sure, however, that many of us expected that we would find the community that we have found here. I think that this site is a living example of the cannabis culture and the goodness that it entails. So, a ‘tip of the cap’ to the creators and administrators of this informative and entertaining website. Good job, guys and gals!

It is time to enjoy the little things in life and to not be fearful of the unknown… Thank you for your time and happy growing.
Welcome. Thanks for your service.
 
@Bush Doctor 77 - Well we may be comparing apples to oranges. I never left the southeast. I did basic in Fort Jackson, SC; advanced training at Ft McClellan, AL; Airborne school in Ft. Benning, GA and annual training in Louisiana. I loved it for a while but my one true love kept calling my name, Mary Jane. They were serious on the drug testing while I was in. I'd like to hear a little about where you were and what you smoked, when you have the time. Thank YOU sir, for YOUR service.
 
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