Although we know the fate of sally i do feel proud that its lookimg more full.
Look at it as a learning experience. Whoops, you already are . I wouldn't waste resources on it, though, beyond the minimum. I suppose, while you are waiting on the arrival of better things, you could try your hand at pollen collection if you like, tying/taping some sort of small bag over the staminate flowers. I wouldn't keep that pollen, of course. But it might show you how easy that kind of thing is to do, for when (if) you decide at some future point to produce your own seeds. Pollen can be stored for a long time in the freezer, as long as it is kept dry, so if you ever get the chance to collect pollen from a fully-male plant, it will be the gift that keeps on giving (so to speak).
He wont walk me down the isle
That's sad. He isn't marrying the woman. It appears to be obvious that you're going to get married regardless of whether he attends the ceremony. Therefore, all he is doing is attempting to lessen what is a very important day for you. Although he may not fully understand that, IDK. Honestly, I hope he doesn't, because the alternative would be a terrible thing indeed. Many times, a parent who - for whatever reason - chooses not to attend their child's wedding eventually comes to regret that decision, and they have to live with it. Some wounds leave scars, and all that.
I have seen divorced parents who loathe each other manage to both attend their child's wedding and remain civil throughout (even, once, pose for pictures whilst smiling). Because they understood that it wasn't their day - it was their child's. So... IDK. I cannot really conceptualize your situation, other than intellectually, because I'm simply not wired that way. It is "beyond my ken," as they say in Scotland. Nonetheless, were you my daughter, I wouldn't consent to walk you down the aisle - I would insist on doing that thing.
Often, when I learn that someone is getting married, I will (with a little "tongue in cheek") congratulate the husband-to-be and wish the bride-to-be good luck. In this case... Congratulations and good luck to the both of you! May you grow old together, and do so gracefully.